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Episode 50: Balancing and Transcending Roles to Fuel an Orgasmic Life Part 2 with Mariana Bozesan

In Part Two, we talk again with Mariana Bozesan, social and serial entrepreneur, parent, and inspirational speaker, about the Tantric dance. Discover how this is so deeply connected to achieving the highest levels of relationship. Learn what you can do as a couple to overcome stuck places, and also, practices that will get you relating fully. Find out what the most passionate people on the planet have about them that makes them so charismatic and desirable. Can you achieve the highest levels of relationship or is this a state meant only for highly evolved world figures? Learn what Mariana shares with her own students about the world of living a successful life that will feed your passion forever and fuel it to ever-increasing depth and richness. 

Episode 49: Balancing and Transcending Roles to Fuel an Orgasmic Life with Mariana Bozesan

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Mariana Bozesan, social and serial entrepreneur, parent, and inspirational speaker, about how to transcend the roles and identities that keep all of us stuck at a certain level of relationship. In Part One of this interview, you will learn about the four levels of relationship, and how each one uniquely contributes to our abilities to experience more passion. Learn the risks inherent in staying at only one particular level of relating, and what it takes to do the inner work to be the kind of person you would want to make love to.

Episode 48: Becoming a Masterful Orgasmic Provider Part 2 with Richard Anton Diaz

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Richard "Anton" Diaz, the founder of Sexy Spirits and Club Tantra. based in New York City. He is the creator of Taontric Massage, a teacher in Expanded Orgasm Technique, a Taoist Instructor and student under Master Mantak Chia, and currently developing a 4 level training program entitled, Becoming Orgasmic Providers for Women.

I think our listeners will love this show because Anton will show us all how he has developed a very successful program for men to become orgasmic providers for women. He teaches the psychological skills as well as physical and mental touches that send women into bliss once they’ve agreed to have a sensual or sexual date.

Hear him explain further details of this amazing program. Listen in as he and Dr. Patti role play a live date situation in which the woman freezes up, and how Anton expertly uses Power Dialogues to get her to see the real issues behind her actions. Listen as he shares other examples of the power and juiciness of his program, and even a story from his personal life.

Episode 47: Becoming a Masterful Orgasmic Provider with Richard Anton Diaz

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Richard "Anton" Diaz, the founder of Sexy Spirits and Club Tantra, based in New York City. He is the creator of Taontric Massage, a teacher in Expanded Orgasm Technique, a Taoist Instructor and student under Master Mantak Chia, and currently developing a 4 level training program entitled, Becoming Orgasmic Providers for Women.

Anton has developed a very successful program for men to become orgasmic providers for women. He teaches the psychological skills as well as physical and mental touches that send women into bliss once they’ve agreed to have a sensual or sexual date. Learn a little about the history of the “do” date. Find out how to meet women by posting an ad offering them pure orgasmic and/or sensual pleasure, and why women would want to come to meet you through an ad. Learn the value of “no strings attached”. Find out why the course is in four parts … and why all four parts are essential!  And, get a great example of what has happened in the course by applying Anton’s principles.

Episode 46: Part Two: Healing The Feminine Genitals with a Yoni/Womb Blessing with Charmaine

In Part Two of this Two Part Series, hear Dr. Patti interview Rev. Charmaine, ordained by the New Seminary, a school of interfaith theology in New York City. She is a Reiki Master, certified hypnotherapist, trained aroma therapist, and tantric energy specialist. Learn about the yoni (or pussy, or female genital) massage that a man (or woman) can give a woman that will give her great pleasure, healing, and joy. Learn how this blessing technique shifted the way Charmaine viewed life, her body, and more. It’s easy to do, if both partners have the intention to give and receive love. Find out the intricate details of how to do it to perfection in a variety of settings, and how special an event this can be! Learn more about some of the other work Charmaine does, how she uses energy reading to work with couples, and naked erotic ecstatic gatherings!

Episode 45: Ecstatic Marriage of Sexuality and Spirit with Rev. Charmaine

In Part One of this Two Part Series, hear Dr. Patti interview Rev. Charmaine, ordained by the New Seminary, a school of interfaith theology in New York City. She is a Reiki Master, certified hypnotherapist, trained aroma therapist, and tantric energy specialist. Hear Dr. Patti and Charmaine discuss what it means to be connected in heart, body, mind, and spirit. What is a prayer? Learn about masturbation mediation (can that also be a calling to the divine)… and whether or not… or how much… you can access your sexual energy for all of life’s needs. Why is this important, and how can it contribute to stronger partnerships and more orgasmic energy?
 
Find out why Charmaine chose this path, what you can do to combine your own sexual and spiritual energies, and be inspired by Rev. Charmaine’s passion about her practices. Find out what she teaches her clients, why she feels this connections of spirit and sex will contribute towards planetary healing, and your own healing, vitality, and joy for life! You may feel inspired and amazed at what you hear on this astonishing series of revelations!

This show is a perfect precursor to the topics we will cover in Part Two.

Episode 44: Having a Hotter, Greener Sex Life with Dr. Ann Haiden

Hear Dr. Haiden and Dr. Patti discuss the latest findings in the field of integrative medicine, and how they might relate to sexual libido and mood. Find out some basic things to look for in wondering if you’ve been “affected” by the environment, in terms of your sexual performance. What areas should you be concerned about? Can you test yourself to see if your hormones are in balance? How would you know if they are out of balance? What other factors might come into consideration if you are not quite “in the mood” the way you want to be? Is there hope for reversing the effect of living in today’s environment? Dr. Haiden feels there is, and offers suggestions that you can practice at home, as well as tests you can request from your doctor. If you feel that there’s more to you than you presently have to offer a partner, and you are not quite sure why you can’t find it… it might just be that this show will open your eyes to many new possibilities! Dr. Ann’s blog, www.gogreenlivehealthy.com, fills in where this show leaves off to give listeners much to hope for and lots of inspiration and knowledge, to clean up their lives inside and out… and along the way, enjoy better, hotter, greener sex!

Episode 43: Secrets of Self-Loving and Orgasmic Opening with Dr. Patti Taylor

In this unique show, Hear Dr. Patti, the regular host of our Expanded Lovemaking show, talk about her introduction to self-loving, or masturbation, at a late age, her reactions to it, and her choices of how to respond. She gives suggestions about how to begin. Dr. Patti recommends other Expanded Lovemaking Show interviews to listen to that are relevant, and even good toys to help create the perfect self-loving date. Decide if “witnessing” is for you, either secretly or openly, and how to use masturbation as a teaching device for a more orgasmic experience with yourself or a partner. Hear how to discover more about your own changing body. Learn how to apply this knowledge to accompany intercourse for more orgasmic experiences there as well! This sensitive topic addresses concerns that many men and women share. So many newcomers to sex, as well as experienced lovers, have the potential to benefit. Find out why!

Episode 42: Transforming Sexual Energy into Spiritual Power with Victor Gold - Part Two

Hear Dr. Patti and Victor Gold, author of “The Potency Principles”. Discuss the principles of Potency for Men that all men will want to lean in order to become better lovers and gain access to a more connected body, heart, spirit, and mind. Learn how we are all generating sexual energy and how we can spread that energy to our hearts. Find out what positions in lovemaking generate the greatest relaxation. Learn why men have different challenges than women, and how to overcome these. Learn how opening the heart energy helps men have “heart-gasms”— and what even women can do to open their hearts as well. Find out what using the breath properly will do to your orgasmic energy. Why did Victor write this book? Is there such a thing as sex magic? How is it used properly? Would more sexual energy transformation change the world? See if this program in your life starts you feeling, thinking, and manifesting in totally new ways!

Episode 41: Transforming Sexual Energy into Spiritual Power with Victor Gold - Part One

Hear Dr. Patti and Victor Gold, author of “The Potency Principles”. Discuss the importance of male retention of ejaculation and how this will bring pleasure to his partner and himself. He describes how to do it, and ways in which your female partner can benefit. Victor discusses his favorite ways to explore the women’s g-spot as well. Learn the benefits of relaxation and how these practices lead to spiritual transformation and profound connection to yourself and all around you. Listen as Dr. Patti and Victor delve into some juicy details of specific lovemaking sessions, and ways to use all the extra orgasmic energy that has been saved as a result of not being spent. You and your partner will be inspired and educated by this information!

Episode 40: Cybersex: Expanding Sex, Love, and Consciousness through Technology with Regina Lynn

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Regina Lynn, sex-ed columnist for Wired.com and author of two books, including the just-released Sexier Sex: Lessons from the Brave New Sexual Frontier. Discover just how many people are using all sorts of technology - cell phones, web cams, and the Internet for fun, spice, and even healing.  Hear Regina reveal her own journey as she and her partner get exposed together to the online world, and Regina learns to be orgasmic for the first time.  Can you be orgasmic with an online partner? What instruments could you use?  What would online sex sound like, or look like? Enjoy Regina’s descriptions of red-hot oral sex online, and how people might have hot encounters with their partners as well. Did you know you can send sexy pictures, voice messages, and more to a loved one?  We even cover how to do this safely! Regina busts the myths that the Internet does not have “ordinary” people on it.  It is full of normal people, though many of them may be trying on all sorts of new personae, or personalities.  Learn Regina’s viewpoints on the future of online love. In the show, she gives lots of links and also shares some excitement with Dr. Patti about her fantastic new book, truly a comprehensive reference for anyone looking to meet new friends in this vast online world we live in today.

Episode 39: Sex as a Powerful Path of Awakening with Dr. Johanina Wikoff

In this show, hear Patti talk to Dr. Johanina Wikoff, a couples counselor, and well-known, widely-experienced, widely-read Tantra teacher who is passionate about her lineage, Kashmiri Shaivism, and its teachings.  Discover how she has found a way to bridge the gap between the esoteric writings of illumination, ecstasy, and transcendence, and, the bliss of embodiment through orgasm.  Discover Johanina’s amazing upbringing.  Get her observations from her recent trip to a World Congress on Spirituality in India on differences between Eastern and Western means of practicing transcendence in the body, and why Johanina feels that Western practitioners may have an edge!  Johanina describes orgasm, and gives us some practical examples of how to spread orgasm through the body. Drs. Patti and Johanina go into an amazing riff on just what is orgasm, what is it feel like, and why and how it changes as we age?  This alone is so priceless, that you may want to hear the show many times over! Learn that orgasm, for those who seek awakening through spirituality, can be so much more than just sex.  Learn the differences that men and women cope with when seeking to experience awakens sex with one another, and how to navigate those differences.  Listen as Drs. Patti and Johanina role-play a couple wanting more enlightened sex. This episode will truly uplift your mind, body, heart, spirit, and soul. It may also inspire you to begin practicing new ways to awaken to more types of orgasmic, awakened pleasure, starting today!

Episode 38: The Sacred Art of the Striptease with Diane Greenberg

In this show, get ready for the sensational and extraordinary Ms. Diane Greenberg, a professional stripper, love coach, Tantric healer, and creator of the instructional DVD, The Sacred Art of the Striptease. Learnhow to strip to please ourselves and our audiences of one or a hundred! What does a good striptease consist of? Who is a good candidate for stripping? What if you have body issues? (Does everyone?) How will stripping change your life forever, in the best possible ways? Why is this a sacred art? Then listen in as Diane thrills Patti and listeners everywhere with a smokin’-hot strip show, that she details move by move. Diane reveals her self-assurance and profound inner beauty, which translates perfectly over the airwaves. She tells us exactly what is going on inside her mind, and what moves to make, to drive herself wild, as well as to guarantee that temperatures soar for all watching! Hands, hair, butts, breasts, backs, legs, bras, panties, are all going sensuously up and down, in manners playful, posing, elegant, luscious, oh-so-naughty, and more. Well, it’s whatever Diane wants, as she makes it up, moment by moment. Learn how you can strip, too, and discover the deep inner benefits that may surprise you and bless you in all areas of your life! Diane shares stories of students and clients… but wait, there’s even more: Dr. Patti confesses her joy of stripping that has come from taking Diane’s class! You’ll want to hear this show many times over!

Episode 37: Sex, Orgasm, Fun and Money: How to Have More of All of This in Your Life! with Dr. Dain Heer

In this show, you'll meet Dr. Dain Heer, a chiropractor who travels the world teaching people how to have way more sex, fun, pleasure, money, and yes, even orgasms in their life!  Learn the key differences between sex, sexuality, sensualness, and copulation which will help you make the kinds of offers that potential partners will gladly say yes to.  Find out : are women are really more aggressive than they often let on, given the right opportunity? What would you say to make a good opening offer for sexual fun? What can we do to reclaim the full potential of our orgasmic nature? Dain gives us several suggestions for bedroom play designed to wake up our orgasmic senses. Just listening to Dain will wake up your senses! Learn how all of us have can be better receivers and how having more sex, fun, and copulation will lead to having more money in our lives!  Dain gives us several useful tools for clearing out the mind- stuff that gets in the way of our having everything we want in all these areas.  He also inspires us with true stories of people that have achieved phenomenal results in a matter of days after using these processes, that he teaches to thousands of people all over the world. Isn't it nice to know that we can all have more sex, orgasm, fun, and money, if that is what we truly desire, and it can be an easy, joyful choice?

Episode 36: Is There a Teacher of Love Inside of You? with Northstar

In this show, Dr. Patti talks to Northstar, an awakened, well-traveled, well read Tantra teacher who has taken it upon himself to develop his skills and talents over the years, all while holding down a nine to five job in Jackson Hole, Wyoming. Starting with a profound sexual awakening experience while at college, Northstar has relentlessly pursued classes, workshops and experiences to further develop an expanded consciousness, through all sorts of workshops, including meditation, movement, dance, and sexuality. He shares with us his own unique techniques for enhancing the amount of kundalini, or vibratory chi energy that flows through one's body.  He then gives us a technique for spreading heart energy, and tells us how to use this energy to enhance orgasmic intensity and pleasure.  We can also use this technique to increase connection with a beloved. Learn how to send and receive energy through special eye gazing and energetic resonance that will have you seeing colors and even hearing music during lovemaking! Apply these techniques, with breathing techniques, in a layering fashion, along with your expanded orgasmic touches, to create a symphonic expanded orgasmic experience. Discover his opinion on whether reading books will help you learn to be a teacher, whether you can raise kundalini on your own, and how and where to meet partners. Hear Northstar and Dr. Patti discuss other issues related to becoming your own self-taught teacher of love. And inspiring show for everyone!

Episode 35: Tongue Kung Fu: Sacred Secrets, Passionate Practices, and Tantalizing Techniques with Karinna Kittles-Karsten

Discover Karinna Kittles-Karsten, the best-selling author of “Intimate Wisdom” and creator of the DVD “Sexual Kung Fu”, who combines Eastern and Western wisdom.  Learn how in the Taoist system of sexual mastery, people find it normal to practice their sexual skills, such as Tongue Kung Fu. Find out the types of motions you can make with your tongue, such as tongue flittering, tongue scooping, and tongue diving. Next, learn some applications for these tantalizing tongue skills, and where you might use them on a lover’s body. Note: unexpected places, like ears are also candidates!  Learn how obvious places, like lips, genitals, necks, and more can be skillfully pleasured with a knowing tongue. Tongue skills require connecting ourselves to our emotions, which explains why on one day, we may feel shy with our tongues, and bold on another day.  Hear Dr. Patti and Karinna explore intimate situations, and how to handle them, when one person is feeling tentative or nervous and the other person wants to initiate more playful engagement! Find out how to tongues figure into “69”, mutual oral sex position.  And learn about “Ambrosia”, the art of tasting one another. This show is one in a million, and Karinna, charm, and sweep you off your feet with her presence of warmth as well as the value of her information.  This is surely a show you in your partner will listen to, and want to go home and try to many tips, as soon as possible. I know I'm inspired!

Episode 34: Optimize Orgasmic Energy with Timeless Taoist Secrets with John Zielinski

In this show, Learn as Dr. Patti goes into depth with John Zielinski about why the Taoist system is so powerful. Hear about the energetic “storm” that is created at birth, that helps create males and females, and the energy streams that give us all life force energy stream. Why is this significant? Learn about the BIGGEST Taoist secret of all: The Microcosmic Orbit: how it works, and how you can incorporate it into your sexuality. Can both men and women can use it? Learn how men can use the “big draw” and “little draw” to influence ejaculatory patterns.  Discover the yin-yang exchange that will help lovemaking go to the deepest levels imaginable, and how to create this exchange with a beloved. Now, do you need to be in a particular Taoist position? If so, what or which are best?

John shares with us the specific books, DVDs, and learning that help us study sexual Taoist sexual mastery. He illustrates why couples find this system a rich resource for building passion as well. He discusses and answers the “ejaculation” question – should men ejaculate, and if so, on what frequency? John generously gives us some more great “pieces” to add to our “building blocks” of “must-have” knowledge about the valuable Taoist system of lovemaking!

This show ties in to our EL Show #28 very nicely, where we interview his teacher, Mantak Chia, on the overview of Taoist Lovemaking. A rich show, chock-full of information and inspiration!

Episode 33: The Erotic Rockstar’s Three-Day Orgasmic Miracle Makeover with Destin Gerek

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Destin Gerek, a Sexological Bodyworker, sex educator, artist, video producer, and, of course, the original “Erotic Rockstar”. Just who is this fascinating persona? Think of those times you seen someone reaching out to an admiring audience, or otherwise welcoming person, confident in love, and voilà!  This person performs with generosity, delight, sparkle, and verve! How does he or she do it? Is this something you can do, and if so how?  Destin gives you a three day erotic makeover program which, when followed, is the opposite of a diet.  It's a splurge! Find out what you can do on days one, two, and three to prepare for the date of a lifetime. Be ready to step outside your normal routine with simple, easy, and fun practices designed to have you feel way more confident, sexy, and self-loving. Discover why self exploration is so valuable, and hear the different ways to do it on different days.  Learn how eye engagement will blow your partner's heart wide open. Swivel those hips, move that breath, and get that sound going to really amp up your level of sensation! Destin’s voice alone will melt and inspire anyone alive! After your three days, you'll meet your partner, who's hopefully been practicing as well.  But, if not, no worries.  Destin will walk you through taking the lead in love, as any great Erotic Rockstar would. You’ll create an amazingly loving and memorable experience.

Episode 32: Sharing the Bliss of All-Chakra Lovemaking with Dr. Sasha Lessin and Janet Lessin

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Dr. Sasha Lessin and his wife, Janet Lessin, about All-Chakra Tantra. The Lessins are the founders of the School of Tantra in Maui, Hawaii, where they teach people to make love with their whole being, and to unblock any and all stuck places that get in the way of intimacy, personal power and full orgasmic presence. Learn what the chakras mean, and how to use them to create a beautiful lovemaking ceremony.  Experience for yourself a dynamic process that Sasha and Janet use to generate connection using the seven chakras to send shivers of delight up your spine! You can feel the energy while listening, and better yet, also reproduce this in your own home with the handout the Lessins give. Then, tune in as Sasha gives Janet a reenactment of a full ejaculatory orgasm.  Sasha very specifically goes stroke by stroke over exactly how he evokes every little nuance and pleasure from Janet’s clit and “cave”, as well as creating her “gushing” over the edge. Youwill get lots of specific ideas. Janet’s commentaries on the emotional impact of Sasha’s touches, and her vulnerability, are priceless, as are both of their spoken words to one another. Learn the kind of work the Lessins do to help others with issues such as sexual healing and emotional blocks to sex in their private counseling. This show models how easily true expanded love can be made! Plus, find out how they connect their work to planetary healing.

Episode 31: Secrets of a Sex Escort: What Men Really Want with Veronica Monet

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Veronica Monet, who has 14 years of “hands-on” experience as a courtesan. She is also Certified Sex Educator, specializing in sexuality, anger management, non-violent communication and relationship dynamics.  Find out how Veronica started life in a normal job and ended up in this unusual one, and the shocking discovery she made about her new job requirements! What do men really want?  What did she have to do to please men, and how did she go about learning? Can women of all “professions” and walk of life learn to please a man?  What happens once a session begins? What does Veronica do to drive a man into ecstasy? Listen as Dr. Patti and Veronica discuss their favorite fun ways to please men (and women) with simple action, that can easily be done even after a long day.  You'd be surprised at how little it takes to bring a smile (and an enthusiastic response) from a man, when the intention is there! Don't miss Veronica’s juicy description of how to please a man or a woman by noticing breathing and other nonverbal cues! You'll be totally inspired to go home and try this out immediately! Discover how role reversal can add spice, and the value of communication for adding to the passion. Veronica's many tips are sure to thrill, titillate, and just plain turn you on.

Episode 30: Adding Creative Fantasy to Your Favorite Intimate Activities with Heron Saline

Dr. Patti and Heron Saline discuss how to add savor and spice to your lovemaking so that it feels safe, and yet expanded.  Heron Saline, a master hypnotherapist, has over 30 years experience in a wide range of integrated mind/body therapeutic modalities. Discover what is safe to have as a fantasy?  What about those thoughts we don't want to have?  How can we enjoy our fantasies, and use them for added turn-on with a loved one? What about solo sex?  Listen as Heron creates a real time exercise with Dr. Patti, in which she has a fantasy right on the air involving a growling, hot, passionate lover! Find out where she feels this in her body, and the questions you can ask your lover to encourage him or her to develop their fantasies too.  Listeners can learn to ask their partner open-ended questions to encourage them to develop their fantasies. Such questions can be fun, revealing, and even lead to avenues of profound self-exploration and development. Fantasy and imagination can be healing, and can take the form of role-play, situations, and other juicy scenarios.  Find out which ones Dr. Patti likes, from which ones she thinks men and women like best, respectively! Because fantasies do bring up feelings and emotions, Heron describes why some people may choose to work with a therapist in exploring how to put fantasy in the best possible context with the rest of their lovemaking life.  A truly love - and life - expanding show!

Episode 29: Finding Sexy Gifts for Your Lover – And Yourself with Jamye Waxman

Dr. Patti and Jamye Waxman discuss the wonderful world of sex toys. Jamye is a New York City sexologist, and author of Getting Off: A Woman&’s Guide to Masturbation, which covers sex toys extensively, as well as providing a compendium of all kinds of lists sex-pleasurable to encourage the woman to gift herself with pleasure.& And, she&’s worked in a famous sex toy shop, Babeland, for over five years.

Today, there are so many products out there to choose from. They come in an array of materials, shapes, sizes, and functions. You&’ll learn all about what products women choose most when they buy a toy. What are the latest trends in vibrators? What are the features, and distinctions we might want to be looking for (and lusting over?) What&’s new in dildoes? How do we know which one to buy? Find out why glass is so desired! And learn about Jamye&’s own favorite picks!

Discover men&’s toys, including the one every man (apparently) dreams of owning!& There are dildoes, vibrating cock rings, &“butt balls&” and &“sleeves&” that even couples getting racy can have hours of fun with! A woman will find it easy to gift her man after hearing some of these suggestions!

After a thoughtful discussion of lubes, and how to shop for gifts, we consider why Jamye wrote a book on women&’s masturbation, and, just gifting yourself… with yourself! A totally fun, meaningful, and hot, playful show!

Episode 28: Multiple Orgasm Triggers – A Program For More Pleasurable and Intensified Orgasms with Jack Johnston

In this show, Dr. Patti asks Jack Johnston to describe the revolutionary Multiple Orgasm Trigger Method for men and women, designed to intensify pleasurable sensation, prolong feelings before ejaculation (for men), and experience wave after wave of orgasmic pleasure. Jack tells us how the protocol works, and why he feels it so effective for prolonging orgasm.& Learn why the use of sound can be so essential for bringing out and accentuating the body's own orgasmic wiring. Find out why Dr. Patti is so excited to learn of the applications of this technology. Learn about the range of orgasmic situations and challenges that can be addressed with these practices: premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and inability to have orgasm are just a few.& People seeking to intensify already functional and exceptional sex lives also love this work.& Find out about Jack's extensive support network surrounding his audio program and the Key Sound that he teaches, and why a deep Barry White voice is so sexy! Learn how thousands of others have responded to doing this work, and what Dr. Patti and her partner felt when they began practicing in preparation for the show. Note: the turn on went in unexpected directions! Patti reads comments from Jack&’s user group for a &“reality show&” feeling this week. You'll get the point: this stuff is amazing and really works!& Check out this show, it's not to be missed. Rather&— share it with everyone you want to see have a spring in their step and a smile on their face!

Episode 27: Cultivating Energy For Healing, Sexual Bliss, Lovemaking and Transcendence with Mantak Chia

In this rare show, hear Dr. Patti converse with Master Mantak Chia, world-famous teacher of the cultivation of energy leading to increased health, well-being, and sexual mastery for both men and women. Chia is famous as a Chi Gung and sexual energy master whose overarching system of practices includes an array of activities for maintaining health and well-being in body, mind, heart, and spirit. In the sexual arena, and in the West, he is famous for his work on the Microcosmic Orbit, leading to practices of non-ejaculatory orgasm for men and more orgasmic bliss for women and couples. He is the author/ co-author of many books, including &“the Multi-Orgasmic Man&”, the Multi-Orgasmic Couple&”, and the &“Multi-Orgasmic Woman&”, all bringing amazing as well as useful Taoist wisdom to our culture.& In this interview, Master Chia gives us a full range of his thinking on Taoist system of sexual energy cultivation. Hear Dr. Patti explore with Master Chia the cosmological and philosophical roots of this system, practical exercises for men and women for cultivating this sexual energy within themselves, and ways to deepen heart energy. You&’ll learn techniques for Taoist lovemaking and more! Again, this is a rare interview hear it and savor it many times over.& It is sure to inspire you and open your mind!

We are fortunate that Master Chia has recorded some of his rare teachings on DVD for home viewing and study.& Recommended DVDs to accompany this show include the following:

The Sexual Alchemy Healing Love Five CD Set

The Inner Alchemy CD Set which includes the Microcosmic Orbit

The Cosmic Inner Smile

The Cosmic Healing Sounds

Iron Shirt Chi Kung to Awaken Internal Healing Energy

Episode 26: Empowering the G-spot and Female Ejaculation with Deborah Sundahl

In this awesome show you&’ll meet Deborah Sundahl, the international sex educator who specializes in teaching women and couples about the G-spot and female ejaculation. You&’ll learn what the G-spot is, what area it covers, and how to explore this area (as a woman) manually and with a sex toy. Find out the differences between clitoral orgasms and G-spot orgasms, and what you&’d do to touch a woman differently? Learn why relaxation is such an important key to G-spot orgasms and ejaculations. Female ejaculations come in all sizes and flavors, and you&’ll find out just the different ways you can expect them to appear. Come into a luscious mindset and learn with us! Do mechanical formulas work in getting women to ejaculate? What happens if a woman feels the need to urinate? Do &“gushers&” feel as good as small quantities? How much ejaculate can come out in one session? Would seeing other women ejaculate be enough to learn how yourself! And, does effort help produce more liquid? How can men help? Learn about the deeper emotional aspects of G-spot orgasms as well, and even the sacred links to higher consciousness of these orgasms. Find out why learning this type of orgasm is can be life long process of learning and opening to increasing levels of emotional healing, awakening, and bliss. find out what motivates Deborah to keep teaching after all these years! With Deborah&’s books, videos, workshops, and even streaming videos, you&’ll feel you have lots of resources available, after hearing this show!

Episode 25: Love Play - A Path of Presence and Transcendence with Bernie Prior, Master Teacher of Pure Tantra

In this amazing show, find out how you become the kind of man that women love to go deep with; why men will realize their full being in expressing devotion to a woman, and how women can be realized in connecting fully with their own true source. Meet Bernie Prior, an enlightened man having enlightenment experiences since age 19. Find out how he himself experiences devotion and bliss by seeing the divine feminine in women everywhere, and the effect this has on a woman - especially Dr. Patti! He defines truth, and speaks eloquently on the possibilities for unifying the inner male and inner female within each of us. How would this transform us as lovers, and give us our own greater connection to truth? What would men be like, connected to their inner feminine? What would women be like, connected to their inner source? How would lovemaking be different, when men and women connected as whole, realized beings, beyond constructs of their conditioning? Can we drop our past and connect in present time... and what would our lovemaking be like if we did? Can we live like this, connected to our inner selves, full-time? What is it like to go into lovemaking rapture? Do we need to do anything, or can this happen with anyone, in any moment? Can men and women transform the way they make love? Hear the answers to these and other incredibly inspiring concepts in this unique show. more.

Episode 24: Compassionate Communication for Intimate Needs and Desires with Lori Grace Star and Scott Catamas, Master Teachers of Compassionate Communication

In this exciting show, Dr. Patti Taylor learns more about Compassionate Communication (a communication methodology founded by Marshall Rosenberg), or Nonviolent Communication, (NVC), with Lori Grace Star and Scott Catamas, both gifted teachers of NVC. Lori, a world-renowned teacher of All-Embracing Tantra, and Scott, a brilliant videographer of many of the leading teachers of NVC are committed to sharing a profound message of bringing joy, turn-on, connection, peace and understanding. Discover how you can bring hotter, juicier, sexier, more loving playfulness, understanding, and intimacy back into your bedroom. more.

Episode 23: Pleasurable Orgasmic Pathways in the Body, Mind, and Beyond with Barry Komisaruk, Distinguished Author and Research Professor

In this awesome show, hear Dr. Patti converse with an expert in the science of orgasm, Dr. Barry Komisaruk, who has studied men’s and women’s orgasms in scientific settings, to learn what turns them on and how to intensify orgasmic sensations. Find out how many orgasmic pathways there really are, as Dr. Komisaruk resolves the hotly contested debate between G-spot and clitoral orgasms with a surprising set of findings! Find out about the four different pathways that can create orgasm and where they are located, and all the places you might touch a woman to create orgasmic sensations. Find out where men can be stimulated, too, in addition to their penis, to expand sensation. more.

Episode 22: Juicy Genital Massage for Women and Men with Carolena Fleishman, Director of the Sacred Space Institute

In this special show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Carolena Fleishman, Director of the Sacred Space Institute. She is a certified sexological body worker who’s facilitated healing, pleasure and transformation for thousands of men, women and couples over the past 10 years. Carolena shares how she began her own process of healing and transformation in her 20s, noticing what she didn’t notice, when she couldn’t feel pleasure in her own pussy. Find out how things have changed for her! Learn how she began using breathing and other modalities to begin feeling so much more pleasure all over her body. Carolena shares some simple breathing techniques you can do while sitting in an office or walking down the street, or even on a hot sexy dinner date. more.

Episode 21: Juicy Questions and Powerful Practices for Feeling More Pleasure with Heather and Robert, Recent Students of Expanded Orgasm, Part Two of a Two Part Series

In this amazing show, Dr. Patti Taylor returns to answer questions for Heather and Robert, our adventurous couple who only a year ago decided to turn around a stalemated sex life and go for fun, renewed passion, and sexual awakening. Dr. Patti answers five questions to help them take the next quantum leap in their love lives, in a live private session. Enjoy the camaraderie, and intimacy, of this special show, as Dr. Patti shares her valuable knowledge with this special, wonderful couple! more.

Episode 20: Reclaiming Sex and Passion in a Marriage with Heather and Robert, Two Recent Students of Expanded Orgasm, Part One of a Two Part Series

In this special show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Heather and Robert, a couple married over fifteen years, whose sex life had gone into a serious slump. They reveal the intimate details of making sense of a marriage whose passion had slowed to a near-stop. Follow with us as one year ago, Heather and Robert start along the path of expanding their sensuality, and listen in as it dramatically changes over the course of the next year. Learn how this couple jump-starts their connection in the bedroom and beyond. more.

Episode 19: Neo-Taoist Perspectives on Health and Sexuality: Orgasms, Bliss, Tantra TV, Teachers, Technology, Transcendence, and More with Moses Ma, Neo-Taoist Practitioner

In this fascinating show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Moses Ma, modern day neo-Taoist. Discover the unique range of Moses's experiences, starting with his years as a Taoist celibate practitioner, sleeping on a wooden board, balancing his mental and physical state to achieve a unitary peace of mind. What happened to lead Moses to seek millions in the Internet world? What is Tantra, and what led him to the study orgasmic sexuality? What else did he find valuable? Did he retain his happiness? Did he keep, and then reconcile, his bliss and balanced hormones with the harsh demands of a fast-paced world? Learn why Moses emphasizes body, mind, sexual vitality, health, and awareness as a package deal. Discover the Taoist kegel exercises he still practices. Dr. Patti and Moses debate male orgasm and frequency of ejaculation. Find out: What is the (really powerful) and compelling "atom bomb of consciousness" mega-movement now occurring, that is waking us up? Why is he so optimistic about his newest venture, TantraTV, and why may this be the way modern seekers of transcendence meet their next teacher? Who are some of the hottest new teachers? And how will these teachers and masters differ, as they, too, adapt into a rapidly changing world? What's next? Teledildonics? Internet Tantra? Be prepared to wonder: who might you meet in the near future, in a dream, or even walking down the street? Who's perfect for you, on your next quantum leap on your journey to enlightenment? more.

Episode 18: Guide Exquisite Lovemaking with Knowledge of the Mind with Daka Raj, Tantrika and Practitioner of Expanded Orgasm

In this special show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Daka Raj, a practicing Kashmiri Shaivite Tantrika and advanced practitioner of Expanded Orgasm. Learn how his special interest in language, combined with a new technology for understanding how mind and body intersect, have led to hotter, juicier lovemaking. Daka Raj explains why Expanded Orgasmic practices are enhanced with sexy talk and sexually explicit verbal appreciation. Wow, is this juicy! Next, you'll learn the amazing and powerful "Open Mind" system for determining the optimal way to give your lover the best type of loving attention. And is there room to optimize on what you're already doing? Learn strategies that may lead to major improvements in connection, kissing, and lovemaking. Daka Raj offers a variety of turned-on love lines he might use with different women, having different "profiles", during sexual pleasuring dates. Hear what he'd say at the beginning, middle, and (really heated) final parts of steamy Expanded Orgasm dates. When you say the right types of words to your partner, well, you can really get them cooking! Dr. Patti wants, and gives, some examples for women talking to men, and asks Daka Raj if her ideas seem on target. Dr. Patti and Daka Raj do their best to stay seated as examples are traded - these prolific examples will melt, vibrate, sizzle and soar! But it's all for a good cause: more love, pleasure and turn-on. Learn all about this amazing cutting-edge technology of love in this exciting, fascinating show! more.

Episode 17: Orgasmic Meditation: Clitoral Communion for Shared Pleasure, Sensation, and Awareness with Nicole Daedone of OneTaste Urban Retreat Center

Join the party, as Dr. Patti interviews Nicole Daedone of OneTaste Urban Retreat Center, a rapidly expanding learning environment. Find out more about how Nicole, the founder, envisions her creation. Discover the many deep wisdom traditions that students can "taste". Learn what has motivated Nicole- both the perfect moments and the struggles. Hear Nicole describe Orgasmic Meditation, and the effects it has on Dr. Patti! Hint: (They are very pleasurable). The conversation climbs, you'll explore more about how to do this practice, and the benefits it offers to you and a partner. The chance to hear two powerful women discussing orgasm together like this is beyond priceless. Nicole reveals her growing edge as a teacher, shares information about how orgasmic meditation influences our limbic systems, and portrays the state of "beyond boundaries" possible with this practice. You'll catch some of the community experience of OneTaste, as you hear what it's like to attend one of their workshop lab practices. You'll find out how OneTaste is rapidly expanding, as Nicole outlines exciting future plans, and what this means to Nicole, as she envisions a world full of more women, and people, who are more balanced in the four key areas of their lives. Dr. Patti and Nicole, feeling close themselves, contemplate a world where women get along out of their fullness and happiness. How inspiring a show, with Nicole, and OneTaste here and growing! more.

Episode 16: Flirt, Tease, and Arouse, In and Out Of the Bedroom with Lucas Hopkins, Gifted Photographer and Master Creator of Passionate Delights

Take your passion to new heights, by adding new ways of flirting, teasing and arousing your lover. Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Lucas Hopkins of ShadowDancerPhotography.com. A brilliant photographer- his intimate photos capture an undeniable presence of turned-on energy. How does he create and capture this? And, does this talent extend to his sex life? (Guess!) Learn how you can set the scene for turned-on environments and sexy "happenings". Discover exactly how to genuinely tease and flirt to bring out a woman's sensuality, eroticism, and playfulness. Hear Lucas speak on the key assets of boldness, feeling, and attention ... and why you must source these from within. Do canned pickup lines work? (Guess!) Safety, safety, safety- do women crave this in order to open up fully? Learn to "manage the energy" when encountering extremely turned-on ladies, so you can prolong and guide steamy hot sessions, in and out of the bedroom. Lucas shares a few favorite secrets for taking a woman into interplanetary realms of bliss during sexual connections. Dr. Patti, totally inspired, reveals her passion for being intimately photographed (since she gets to be the shining star!) Lucas and Patti coach women on how they can get their guys to flirt and tease more - hint, hint - listen up, ladies! Yes, it's true. Both men and women can learn to set the stage for turn-on! And, do see Lucas's intimate photos to get the full experience of this show at http://www.shadowdancerphotography.com. more.

Episode 15: Arouse and Thrill Her through Foreplay, Coreplay, and Moreplay with Ian Kerner

In this special show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Dr. Ian Kerner, celebrated sex therapist, and best-selling author of She Comes First. Discover how orgasmic women really are, and how foreplay, "coreplay", and "moreplay" create juicier sexual connections. Learn about the different mental stimuli women truly crave most. Is fantasy good? What kinds are there, and how can you add them in to your bedroom scenarios? Now, Ian educates and inspires readers to celebrate oral sex as major strategy for assuredly gratifying a woman. He generously shares ideas, suggestions, details, and practical considerations that will thrill newcomers and veterans alike! Take notes, as Ian encourages men to experiment with all sorts of oral pleasure using their tongues, gums, hands, fingers, minds, eyes, and even vocal cords, and gives us specific strokes. As a special treat, Ian describes the "first kiss"! Does timing make a difference? Could less stimulation ever feel better than more? Do these practices work, even in the context of long-term relationships as well as on a hot new date? (And what is the Elvis Presley Snarl?) Ian brings in the emotional and relationship aspects that complement the physical ones, enriching both men and women looking to have deeper, more loving connections in any relationship. Finally, enter this show's super-fun contest: It's The She Comes First Book Give-away to my 10 favorite blog posts in the next month! more.

Episode 14: Prostate Massage: a Fun and Sexy Path to Pleasure with Erika Thost, M.D., Founder of SexyProstate.com

In this amazing show, Dr. Patti talks to Dr. Erika Thost, a leading spokeswoman, researcher, and pioneer, as she advocates for greater male pleasure coming from stimulation of mens' prostates, or "male G-spots". Dr. Thost, founder of SexyProstate.com, shares with us valuable information on how we can begin to explore and reap these exquisite pleasure benefits for ourselves. You'll discover how the male prostate is now in vogue, as couples and singles everywhere are discovering its rich potential for delivering amazing quantities of pleasure, health benefits, and even opportunities for communication between couples. Learn what challenges Dr. Erika faces as an MD bringing this knowledge out into the world, and catch her inspiration as she shares her delight in the beauty and power of giving these experiences, and then teaching about them. She'll go into detail, detail, detail, we promise! You'll discover, inch by edge, what lies within... and be inspired, we hope, to put these practices to use. Dr. Erika shares about the vulnerability, communication, and tenderness that make the physical technique most meaningful. She includes suggestions for single men. Anal massage can lead to prostate orgasms! Now, learn how anal orgasm allows men to reclaim this often-neglected, but pleasure-rich area of the body. Find out how women, too, are deeply empowered as givers of this experience. Finally, learn why Dr. Erika feels that giving these massages is also a positive gift to the entire world! more.

Episode 13: "Wholistic Sexuality" with Sheri Winston with Guest Host Richard Anton Diaz

Anton interviews Sheri Winston, a former certified midwife, registered nurse, and sexuality and childbirth educator of women's health, who now teaches "Wholistic Sexuality" as a pathway to living an ecstatic, orgasmic, life. She offers in this interview a new paradigm of sexuality for men & women who are looking for wisdom about themselves, their bodies, their health concerns, and their potential for greater orgasmic expression in their lives. more.

Episode 12: Turning On! with Sex, Love, and Attention with Erwan Devon and Alicia Bayer, Founders and Teachers of the Pleasure Course

In this episode, Dr. Patti interviews Erwan Devon and Alicia Bayer, founders and teachers of the Pleasure Course, a three day immersion into Awareness, Intimacy, and Sensuality. Turn-on is that magic but elusive elixir that puts a spring in your step and leaves you glowing. Many turn to pills and potions, but, since turn-on arises from your integrated body/mind/heart/and spirit, Alicia and Erwan teach us to source the real thing from within ourselves. You'll learn how you'll know when you're turned on and what to do to regain your glow. In tackling topics both profound and refreshingly simple, Erwan and Alicia connect what relaxation, Zen, and attention have to do with sex, love, and belief systems. Listen in, as Erwan and Alicia reveal juicy, unexpected moments from their first date. And, hear Dr. Patti try out Erwan's suggestions for amping up her level of turn-on, right then and there, when she's already feeling wonderful. Clue: it worked way better than anyone could've predicted! Can you guess why Alicia and Erwan teach? Find out all this and more, on this fun and enlightening program, bound to leave you turned on and eagerly planning your next major fun experience. more.

Episode 11: Tantra's Path to Embodied Bliss with Daniel Odier, PhD., A Renowned Tantric Master in the Kashmiri Shaivist Tantric Tradition

Have you ever wanted to travel to faraway lands to meet a real Tantric master? We hear so much about Tantra as a set of practices that supercharge our love life, but, what are they, really? Rarely can we go to the source of this profound knowing. Now you can find out what the ancient authentic Tantric masters taught to infuse our bodies "and our lives" with, bliss, awareness, and pure expansion. Daniel Odier, Ph.D., is a renowned Tantric master in the Kashmiri Shaivist Tantric tradition. Its all-encompassing practices include the body, and even sex. You'll discover the beauty, simplicity and accessibility of the basic Kashmiri Shaivist teachings. You'll learn why integrating your whole being - (body, mind, heart, and spirit) - and ending all sense of separation, set you free. Find out why honoring the feminine is so important in today's world, and why integrating the two poles of Shiva and Shakti, male and female, within each of us, is so valuable. Daniel describes the elegant tandava, or ancient tantric dance, and special attributes of Kashmiri Shaivist massage. Learn what desire is, and why we want to celebrate it. Daniel also shares deeply about passion, and why truly passionate people are so turned on, artistic, and romantic. Hear how Tantric lovemaking starts out -- and ends - differently from regular lovemaking - consistent with a path of flowing in truly embodied bliss! Listen as we end with an inspired, shared micropractice! more.

Episode 10: The Five Different Kinds of Orgasm with Ina Laughing Winds, Teacher from the Chuluaqui Quodoushka Ancient Mayan Tradition

In this special show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Ina "Laughing Winds" Mlekush, senior Teacher of Chuluaqui Quodoushka Ancient Mayan Tradition of Sacred Sexuality. Ina is a 25 year apprentice to Swiftdeer "Thunder Strikes", an Elder on the Twisted Hairs Council. Join us as Ina shares with us both timeless, sacred teachings and practical wisdom about our orgasmic lives. Learn why Ina's lesson on locating the G-spot is sure to educate and inspire. Hear about her in-home program for developing greater erotic pleasure. Plus, Ina takes us right inside one of her tradition's sacred sexuality workshops. Finally, Ina gifts us with her inspiring views on connecting our sacred sexuality with the sacred energy of the planet. more.

Episode 9: Experiencing Quantum Leaps in Pleasure with Extended Massive Orgasms with Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky, Teachers of Extended Massive Orgasm

In this episode, Dr. Patti interviews Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky, two the most celebrated teachers in our field. Steve and Vera teach Extended Massive Orgasm, or EMO, a hand-to-genital art and practice of giving extended orgasmic pleasure. Best-selling authors, presenters, and coaches, Steve and Vera share generously some of the inside information they give to their classes and private clients. With humor, heart, and details, details, details, the Bodanskys tell us what an Expanded Massive Orgasm is, and how to give one to your partner. You'll discover the three things Steve feels a giver should know starting out, while Vera tells us the three things anyone receiving an EMO should know. The Bodanskys reveal those inner qualities that, when mastered, shift your ordinary pleasuring into pleasuring that sends your partner into ecstasy. Learn why peaking, acknowledgment, relaxation, intention, and appreciation are keys to the heart of this practice. Find out Steve and Vera's recommendations on using EMO for erotic self-development, and their viewpoint on fantasy. Enjoy hearing what's possible in receiving coaching, as they bring one couple's coaching session to life. Finally, Steve and Vera offer sage and memorable parting advice. more.

Episode 8: The Inner Secrets of Sacred Spot Massage with Charles Muir and Leah Alchin

Would you like to enhance your sensual and emotional life by learning how to become a master of pleasure through touch? Are you interested in expanding your ability to be spiritually and sexually intimate? Would you like to experience the joys of being a more selfless, generous, and pleasured lover? Do you feel you have more to learn about orgasm? Tantra is a 4,000-year-old Indian tradition that will help you address these and many other questions relating to your sensual, sexual, emotional, and spiritual lives-and also to your intimate connections with others. You will learn in this podcast the differences between a clitoral and vaginal orgasms, about the women's Sacred of pleasure, and how