The Welcomed Consensus Shares about Deliberate Orgasm

Hi, this is Dr. Patti Taylor of www.ExpandedLovemaking.com, and I just had the most exciting interview with two teachers, two amazing, turned-on ladies, I might add, from the Welcomed Consensus.

This is a teaching organization living communally, exploring sexuality, sexuality and communication, since the ‘90s.

They have some of the most amazing information on the planet about how to bring into profound states of expanded, extended orgasmic bliss.

There’s so much I love about this group. They do so much to preserve the integrity of what they teach in a very pure form, and, they make it available and accessible through a variety of ways.

They have ongoing classes, and an amazing “clit board” which you can access for free! at www.welcomed.com. Their DVDs just keep on coming out, and I can’t say enough praise about the turn on I feel when I watch these ladies coming, and what RJ, the principal giver of this pleasure, has to say.

This is their first podcast ever, and I feel we are all so lucky that they have chosen to share with the world in another way please listen in, enjoy and take in their message.

You can listen here to to their first show, Deliberate Orgasm: The Practice, The Pleasure, and the Power, but be sure and catch their second one as well:

Hi, Everyone,
I wanted to share the sweetest fan letter I got yesterday:

“Hi Dr. Patti,

Thanks for you wonderful interview with Dr. John Gray.

I really enjoyed the fun and playful energy of this interview and the wealth of practical information. It was great to learn about oxytocin and how it affects female turn on, and some suggestions on how to raise those levels. I’ve already started using them with my girlfriend!

I loved hearing about how men often use sex to relax and usually have an easier time getting the testosterone levels they need, but woman - in the modern high stress world - need a certain kind of attention to build up to levels where sexing will sound like fun.

Hearing the two of you talk about how either the man or the woman can be responsible for having a good sex life (of course both is better), and how one can have a range of fun together from quickies to the 7-course fine dining version of love-making was refreshing.

In addition the information about seratonin and blood sugar, and the effects on oxytocin production was fascinating. There was so much to hear and learn about hormones, male-female relating, and sex… and hearing it from the best-selling relationship coach (and my favorite interviewer) was great!

Thanks and keep up the great work!

Signed… TD”

Wow! That made my day, too!

You can check out part one of this amazing two part show here:

Dear Listeners,

My Internet podcast show, The Expanded Lovemaking Show, has made it into the finals for the Podcast Awards. I would love to receive your votes of support and enthusiasm for my show. Here’s what you can do:

Starting now (so you get into a great rhythm!)… and then, between now and November 6, go to this link:

http://podcastawards.com

I am in the category called MATURE. Just vote for my show! It’s that easy.

You can vote as on as many days as you’d like, as long as it’s no more than once a day.

We’re up against some “stiff” competition, but, I never underestimate the power of expanded love!

Thanks in advance for taking some of your precious time, to have our show take the spotlight as the number one mature podcast out there today!

Please feel free to pass this along to friends as well. This includes new listeners to the show, as well as those whom you do know already listen.

And this week, I might add, is an awesome show with Dr. John Gray on Why Mars and Venus Collide- How Stress, Brain Chemistry, and Hormones All Affect Your Love Life.

So, if you are enjoying the kind of quality programming you’ve been getting… now is you chance to say “thank you”.

(The other way, of course, would be to write a great 5 star review for I-tunes!)

Warmly,
Patti
a.k.a. Dr. Patti Taylor
www..ExpandedLovemaking.com

Hi, this is Dr. Patti Taylor, of www.ExpandedLovemaking.com,

and, I am so happy to hear that out of all the explicit shows, my listeners were #1 in filling out the listener survey that helps Personal Life Media keep these shows on the air, and coming to you.

My “admins”, aka, “the management”, said, “Wow, your listeners have really responded to your requests to fill out this survey. Way to go!”

And I only asked a few times.

Well, if there’s one thing MY listeners know, nothing works quite as well as praise, right? So I’m thanking you for being the most loyal, dedicated listening fans ever!

If you haven’t filled out the survey yet, would you? I’ll put the link at the bottom. We’ll all really appreciate you and your input so much here at PLM Central. It’ll take about five minutes. I did it myself. Pretty easy.

Plus, I want to know more about you, too, so I can continue to deliver the kinds of programming that YOU really want!

One other thing that you can do to support our shows, as we seek ways to get great new advertisers, is for you to fill out a review for me in I-tunes.

Thanks, everyone… I am sending my genuine appreciation and gratitude,
Patti

Here’s the link for filling out the survey:
http://www.survey.personallifemedia.com/

Hi All,

This is Dr. Patti Taylor of ExpandedLovemaking.com.

Normally I like my shows to be pretty upbeat, a respite from a world gone all too serious.

So you may be wondering, is this show uncharacteristically solemn?

Our world is becoming so complex that we have to read the labels on all the boxes and foods we eat and clean with in order to avoid sex changes, mood changes, and …. worse? Ask yourself: do you want to be at choice about what you put in and on your body!

Even sex toys may be dangerous! Here’s a link on this scoop: http://victoria-e.com/2008/02/12/poisonous-plastics-in-your-sexy-playthings/

Yes, it’s come to that. So, I felt it important to mention that if you really want your sex life to shine, then you may really want to start paying attention to these things. Having challenges in the bedroom? It really may not all just be you… or your relationship. It really may be what you ate for dinner that’s causing you to be having a hard time!

To enumerate all the things you have to read would take way too long to read or to memorize in one sitting. It’s really a mind set one has to adopt and learn over time.

Our best bet is too keep educating ourselves. Dr. Haiden’s blog, http://gogreenlivehealthy.com/, is a great start. And there’s so much more, once you start looking! Constant vigilance is the best policy.

And, we are incredibly lucky to have a great show on this network, Living Green, that helps keep us informed about ways to stay more healthy.

Stay awake, alert, and turned on!

Dr. Patti

PS At the left of this column is our listener survey. Would you be kind enough to fill it out? It will help us get the sponsors we want and need to keep giving you the programming you love. Thank you so much in advance, Dr. Patti

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

I hope you’re enjoying your new year so far! One easy way that you can expand pleasure in your life is simply to remove those activities that are cluttering up your psychic energy. It’s so easy to get “snowed under” with busy-ness, to the point where you can almost forget who you are, and, what is most near and dear to living life for you.

How to clear up the clutter? One easy way to start is to surround yourself with the friends, books, and messages that support you in living the life you want.

Taking action, of course, is the next step. All action, of course, begins with your intentions, freely and clearly stated.

What are your intentions? I’ll leave you to ponder that, and possibly jot down.

On my calendar, here’s what’s next:

Monday, January 14, 2008
10 p.m. — 12 Midnight PST
The Mike Hagan show
http://www.mikehagan.com/main.htm
Call in at 543-443-8255

This is a live call-in show that will be archived.
Mike’s show is heard by thousands all across the country. He has incredible guests on his show, talking on topics ranging from planetary change, to the Gaian mind, global alignment, and so much more. He and I are both excited to be bringing the topic of embodied enlightenment to his listeners. Please join us for this very special show.

In other news, my podcast, the Expanded Lovemaking Show, registered almost 70,000 downloads per month for December. We are taking off! and growing rapidly. So, if you love this show… well, it appears that you’re in a lot of good company!

Till next time, wishing you ever-expanding bliss!
Yours,
Patti
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

Have you heard the one where the Zen Monk goes to New York City and orders a hot dog from a vendor? He says, “Make me one with everything”. The vendor makes him a hot dog and takes his money. The monk expects his money back and when he doesn’t get it says, “Where’s my change?” “Ah”, says the vendor “Change comes from within.”

This joke reveals how we much expect the right thing to happen at the right place and time. The same event becomes funny when it’s the right thing at the wrong time.

Aren’t we all just chock-full of thousands of judgments about what’s right and wrong? What if we could just dump those judgments and enjoy every moment – especially during sex?

How cool would that be, since, when it comes to sex and pleasure, right and wrong events usually do not lead to harmless laughter, but often to more serious developments, like shutting down, embarrassment, trauma, hurt, and fear. Plus, we quit having fun with sex.

Have you got lots of judgments right this very nano-second about sexuality – yours, mine, and everyone else’s? Are you wondering, “Wow. I’d love to drop my judgments about sex. But how?”

AH!!! Here’s the true secret of enlightenment: It’s as close as a subtle shift away. (In other words, enlightened sex is not to be found in with some guru in the Himalayas…. It’s in a Hot Dog Vendor!) Okay… just kidding on this one.

Seriously, though. You don’t need to go to the Himalayas…. It’s all here, in your own, simple, amazing attitude about fun. Just keep asking yourself, would you rather be right, or have fun?

So the next time your lover slips on a banana peel – (say it’s *your* greased clit or cock), and their hand flies, on a fumble, up your nose… well, did you know that the nose is full of erectile tissue? If your nose knows this isn’t the place to be, solicit their slithering digits to slide slippery-slope down to your lips! Aha…. more erectile tissue! Now maybe lips are more to your liking (and licking)? Hmm, perhaps, now’s the time to become one with everything… wink, wink….starting with that friendly finger fondling your galactic smile!

Happy New You! To all my Dear Readers,

In Expanded Laughter,

Dr. Patti
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

Hi this is Dr. Patti Taylor, of ExpandedLovemaking.com. It’s that, oh-so-magical time, of the year! Are you creating yours that way? After all, reality is what we create it to be, isn’t it?

Our Upcoming Show on Dec. 17th, with Jamye Waxman, is all about Sex Toys, by the way, and her new book, Getting Off, will also be full of great gift ideas!

If you or your partner don’t have an Ipod or MP3 player with which to download all our podcasts, well, there’s the first item on your want list: All the Expanded Lovemaking shows on a new MP3 player!

And, as an act of service, some people have an MP3 player and just don’t know how to download shows, or listen in their car? Do you? Can you show them?

Here are some gift-giving ideas for you to ask for, or to consider giving, related to your “favorite” podcast!

From Me:
Expanded Lovemaking: $16.95 My book, of course, at Amazon.com and fine bookstores, (they’ll order if out of stock).

Expand Her Orgasm Tonight DVD: $24.94 the famous DVD Adult, explicit. Order from www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

A Phone Coaching Session or In-person session or series of sessions. Why not learn new ways to spice things up in the nicest way, with yourselves as the gift? www.ExpandedLovemaking.com, go to Coaching

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Hi, this is Dr. Patti Taylor of www.ExpandedLovemaking.com, and I am so thrilled to have this interview with Mantak Chia. Mantak Chia is a fixture in our culture, but in a slightly “small” way relatively to his total message. He is the one who for years has been telling men, to withhold ejaculation, and circulate that energy (and that semen!) up through the body instead! You can (and should) circulate precious this orgasmic energy up through your body, mind, heart and spirit, rather than “spend it” by letting it leave your body.

Of course he says a lot more than that. In fact, he has an entire cosmology or how to live an orgasmic and loving life.

It’s so typically “Western”-consciousness that we equate him with this one concept on of withholding semen, when what he talks about is an entire way of living, eating, thinking, and breathing, (for both men and women) … and, of course, when he includes making love and generating orgasmic energy as a big part of his overall conversation.

Join us as he talks about this, and so much more, on this podcast.

Yes…it’s about so much more than whether you ejaculate (as a man) or not.

So… become global. Open your mind and hear what this brilliant master has to say.

Oh, and check out some of his DVD’s while you are at it… they are wonderful. I especially love the ones on Sexual Alchemy, though, I admit, I haven’t seen them all yet! We list them on our episode page for Mantak Chia’s show.

Once you’ve listened to him, then see what works for you in your body.

Overall, I am sure you will feel totally enriched for having heard this brilliant man.

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